tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973327144848948474.comments2011-11-11T12:33:19.236-05:00Pattihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17486067475980410528noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973327144848948474.post-29773231205587546542011-11-11T07:33:33.960-05:002011-11-11T07:33:33.960-05:00grr. this is my mother right here. i know how it feels. but what&#39;s worse, she would be pissed that i spent money on me and the girls and not her. mind you, i paid her $300 a week for babysitting, off the books, back in the day. and she lived with me during periods when whoever she lived with couldn&#39;t stand her. and paid her while she was living in my house for free and she was still unreliable. <br />i was a divorced mom who made money. i paid every darn bill on time and would buy my girls and myself something every other friday. and get my hair and nail done. <br />my mother hated this. now i&#39;m a wahm and she hates that too. hubby supports me in this cause he wants me home with the toddlers and in reach when my teens need me. we&#39;re surviving fine. she still gripes, go get a real job. i mostly work when everyone&#39;s sleeping. every now and then i take a call from a client during the day. since she&#39;s living with me for free, again, (it was suppose to be a month or two, it&#39;s been over a year) I&#39;ll ask her to watch the kids for 15 minutes while i take a call and she&#39;ll insult me about not paying attention to my kids. I moved once to get away from her. i want to do it again, but hubby says no. she&#39;s willing to move if i pay her 4k. where am i suppose to get that from? so until my income tax return time comes along, which will probably be february i have to take the crap. i hear you my sister and you feel free to reach out to me if you need someone who can relate.vanitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06634748075646866112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973327144848948474.post-25305979900284366692011-10-24T12:05:18.893-04:002011-10-24T12:05:18.893-04:00all i can say is WOW! great job!vanitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06634748075646866112noreply@blogger.com